Can cis people stop assuming that trans people already had surgery or that all trans people are somehow in the process of surgery because it really shows how little y'all understand about medicine if you think that it’s possible to be so easily accessible and safe (even if you ignore that some trans people don’t even want surgery to begin with)
Like surgery isn’t even that common (out of the 100 trans people I’ve met I can only think of 6 that have had some form of reassignment surgery) and it pisses me off that y'all reduce our trans experience to how far along with surgery we are. There’s this whole obsession about pre op and post op trans people by cis people and it’s very weird. Like y'all treat people who are post op as more “real” and “valid” because they are “truly dedicated” and people who don’t have surgery as “fake” or “not committed enough to really be trans” while ignoring that our experiences aren’t dictated by our genitalia and that surgery. Isn’t. Safe. Or affordable. It isn’t possible for some people.
So stop focusing on it because y'all just end up using it to invalidate and silence trans experiences







